The Snare of Fearing Failure
You know, in spite of the fact that Christianity speaks of the cross, redemption, and sin, we’re unwilling to admit failure in our lives. Why? Partially, I guess, because it’s human nature’s defense mechanism against its own inadequacies. But even more so, it’s because of the successful image our culture demands of us. There are some real problems with projecting the perfect image. First of all, it’s simply not true—we are not always happy, optimistic, in command. Second, projecting the ﬂawless image keeps us from reaching people who feel we just wouldn’t understand them. And third, even if we could live a life with no conﬂict, suffering, or mistakes, it would be a shallow existence. The Christian with depth is the person who has failed and who has learned to live with his failure.Surely you desire truth in the inner parts;
you teach me wisdom in the inmost place.
- Psalm 51:6
from "Reflections for Ragamuffins" - Brennan Manning